📖The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level

authors
Hendricks, Gay
year
2010
  • when things go too well, we sabotage ourselves
  • Upper Limit Problem
  • we don’t allow too much happiness
  • don’t spend too much time in you Zone of Incompetence
  • 4 barriers:

    • feeling that I am fundamentally flawed in some way (also manifests as a fear of if you commit to you genius, you might fail)
    • end up all alone, disloyal to my roots, and leave people behind
    • believing that more success brings more burden
    • the crime of outshining
  • 99% of the worrying is just to make you miserable (they are either non-real or non-actionable)
  • common barriers:

    • criticism and blame
    • arguments

      • arguments is making yourself a victim (i.e., who is more victim)
    • getting ill
  • “would you be willing to consider that your conflict is not about what you think it’s about?”
  • Do your higher-priority activities before lower-priority ones.
  • q

    I expand in abundance, success, and love every day, as I inspire those around me to do the same.

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